新婚之夜,与他情浓之后,我突然问他,为什么要娶我?他愣了一下,大笑,说:因为我爱你,因为我和你门当户对,因为我们两情相悦。我很满意他的答案。确实,我们是门当户对的一对夫妻。他的和我的父母都是普通的小市民,我和他都是普通白领,我俩的教育背景、成长背景相似。确实,他爱我。我们恋爱时,聪明能干的他颇有女人缘,但他一直专心地爱我,花花公子般的男人,我可不会答应嫁给他。两情相悦的一对男女在一起,一定能相伴终生、快活似神仙的。我想。可是,婚后生活中,我们之间却出现了一个问题:我俩的性事拒绝和我们两情相悦。婚前,我担心他以为我是一个只贪图肉欲享受的女子,也怕他误会我是生活作风不检点的女子,因此,很忌讳和他谈论性事,我们之间的交往也仅限于拥抱而已。而他,也礼貌地保持着绅士般的风度,从不越雷池一步。婚后,他在这方面却突然热情奔放起来,喜欢给我灌输各 Wedding night, with his passionate, I suddenly asked him, why should I marry him? He froze for a moment, laughing, because: I love you, because I am right with you, because we love each other. I am very satisfied with his answer. Indeed, we are a well-to-do couple. He and my parents are ordinary citizens, I and he are ordinary white-collar workers, our education background, growth background is similar. Indeed, he loves me. When we were in love, he was a woman who was clever and capable, but he always devoted himself to love me, dude man, and I would not promise to marry him. Passionate pair of men and women together, will be able to accompany life, happy like a god. I think. However, in our married life, a problem has arisen between us: Our sexuality refuses to be reconciled with our two affirmations. Before I got married, I was worried that he thought I was a woman who was just trying to enjoy her sensuality. I was afraid that he would misunderstand that I was a woman who did not judge her style of life. She was very taboo to talk about sex with him. The interaction between us was confined to embrace. And he, also politely maintained a gentlemanly demeanor, never more thunder pool one step. After marriage, he suddenly passionate in this area, like to indoctrinate me