其实,有多少人是真正从心眼里想主动单?又有多少是因为被动单得久了,找一个貌似主动单的借口来麻痹自己呢?总的来说,几个人其实就一个择偶观“选择自己资源禀赋中的匮乏项,与自己形成互补”。最近随着热剧《欢乐颂2》的热播,对剧中五美的择偶观讨论也越来越热烈。似乎最有代表性的一个归纳是微博上的一种说法:“安迪是想嫁给安全感,樊胜美是想嫁 In fact, how many people really want to take the initiative from the heart of a single? How much is because the passive single for a long time, looking for a seemingly unsolicited single excuse to paralyze yourself? In general, a few people in fact, ”Choose the scarce items in your own endowments of resources, and complement each other.“ Recently, as the hot play ”Ode to Joy 2“ hit, the debate on the beauty of the show more and more enthusiastically. One of the most representative seems to be inducted is a statement on Weibo: ”Andy wants to marry a sense of security, Fan Shengmei wants to marry