有人提问,为什么心急如焚时间很紧的人反而更愿意选择游戏?这个问题里提到了一件很有意思的事:他并不是真的喜欢游戏。既然你并不是真的喜欢游戏,也得不到快感,那么在你不想做正事的时间里,为什么不去换一件你喜欢的、有快感的事做做呢?我猜,他的答案是害怕,害怕一旦做起喜欢的事,就更一发不可收了。所以他宁可用一件自己都“觉得厌烦”的事,塞满现在的时间,以至于现在的他一点也不幸福。坦白地说,在这个时候,他挺害怕让自己幸福起来的。怎么就这么不幸福呢?我们经常这么问别人, Someone asked why people who are in a hurry are more willing to choose the game. The issue mentioned a very interesting thing: he did not really like the game. Since you do not really like the game, you do not get the pleasure, why do not you do something you love and have pleasure in when you do not want to do business? I guess his answer is Afraid, afraid to do something like once, even more can not be done. So he would rather “feel bored” by himself, filling up the present time so that he is not happy at the moment. Frankly speaking, at this time, he was rather scared to make himself happy. Why so unfortunate? We often ask others,