只要你用心观察,就会发现孩子是在犯错中一点点长大,变得聪明、能干的。我儿子3岁多的时候,刚有一点独立性,便“逞能”起来。他很爱模仿大人做事,你拖地他也要拖两下,你端盘子他也要端,你浇花他也要浇,结果经常会弄出点小事故或者闹出笑话。有一次,我一进家门,保姆就跟我告状,说儿子淘气,把西洋菜、香菜都揪得只剩下了细细的茎,还把叶子扔进了垃圾桶里。她批评了儿子,儿子还赌气摔玩具。我 As long as you observe carefully, you will find that your child is making mistakes, growing up, becoming clever and capable. When my son is over 3 years old, he just got a bit of independence and got up. He loves to imitate adults doing things, drag him to drag him twice, he also end your plate, you have to pour water, the results often make a little accident or make a joke. Once, as soon as I entered the house, the nanny just told me that my son was naughty and that he had left the delicate stems of the western dishes and parsley and threw the leaves into the trash. She criticized his son, son also angry throwing toys. I