我一直都很重视孩子的家庭教育问题,我那上初中一年级的儿子也基本算是全面发展,可是自他上学以来无论是学习上还是其他各个方面都一直保持中等水平,从来没有过什么突破。我想:孩子今后的路还长,没有一技之长在竞争激烈的社会中很难有所作为,一定要发挥孩子的潜能,在某一方面培养他的强项。然而,我实在不知道如何从儿子平均的能力中判断出他的“强”与“弱”,有没有什么具体的方法和参照的表现呢? 刘德亚 I have always attached great importance to children’s family education. My son who graduated from the first grade of junior high school was basically an all-round development. However, since the beginning of his school, he has maintained a medium level of study and other aspects, and has never seen any breakthrough. I think: children still have a long way to go in the future. Without any skills, it will be very hard for them to make a difference in a highly competitive society. They must give full play to their potential and develop their strengths in one aspect. However, I really do not know how to judge his “strength” and “weakness” from his son’s average ability. Is there any concrete method and reference? Liu Deya