一、有表达的爱,不让孩子做“没头苍蝇”中国的父母都很含蓄,不喜欢直接表达对孩子的感情,有时,明明很想对孩子好却总要用截然相反的方式表达。所以孩子有时候就会猜疑:父母是不是真的疼我?他们也许根本就不爱我!时间久了,他们就像没头苍蝇一样 First, there is expression of love, let the children do “no head flies ” China’s parents are very subtle, do not like to express their feelings directly to children, and sometimes, obviously want to children but always use the opposite way expression. So children sometimes suspect: parents really hurt me? They may not love me at all! For a long time, they are like the first flies