“你知道什么是结婚?结婚为什么要举行隆重的仪式?”笔者经常这样询问那些轻率发生性行为的青少年。他们多是吞吞吐吐,语无伦次,说不出个所以然来。因为家长和教师没有与他们谈过:“不可轻易尝试第一次性行为,因为那是应该在你的新婚之夜发生的。”大量的事实证明,现在的青少年非常缺乏真正的性教育,对 “Do you know what is marriage or why marriage is a grand ceremony?” The author often asks young people who have sexually abusive behavior. They are mostly vague, incoherent, can not tell every reason. Because parents and teachers have not talked to them: “Do not try your first sex easily, because that should happen on your wedding night.” There is ample evidence that teenagers nowadays lack a real education of sex.