归宿——悟语之一子女是自己血脉的延伸,但并不是自我的克隆,因而父母与子女之间应该保持一定程度的各自的个人空间。这种个人空间一是表现为父母与子女间的相对独立,不要过分地依赖子女,也不要脱离子女的呵护;二是表现为充分认识两代个体家庭的差异,父母的家永远是子女亲情的所在,是子女感情的归宿,但子女的家并不是父母感情的归宿。 Fate - one of the Wu language children is an extension of their own blood, but not self cloning, so parents and children should maintain a certain degree of their own personal space. This kind of personal space is manifested as the relative independence between parents and children, not to rely too much on children, nor from the care of children; second, to fully understand the differences between two generations of individual families, the parents’ family will always be their children’s affection Where is the fate of their children’s feelings, but their children’s home is not the fate of their parents feelings.