不可否认,“礼尚往来”已经成为现代社会人际交往约定俗成的准则,送礼成为司空见惯的现象。有的人无论逢年过节、婚丧嫁娶、晋级提职,有事送,没事也送;主动送,被动也送;富人一掷千金,穷人借钱也打肿脸充胖子。一来二往,送礼之风盛行。 “礼尚往来”的主旨在于“往来”,这本没有错。《礼记·曲礼上》有云:“往而不来,非 Admittedly, “reciprocity” has become a common practice in modern society, interpersonal relationships, gifts become a common phenomenon. Some people regardless of festivals, marriage and funeral marriage, promotion, something to send, nothing to send; take the initiative to send, passive also sent; the rich spend billions of dollars, the poor borrow money also swollen face filling fat. One after another to, the prevalence of gifts. There is nothing wrong with the principle of “reciprocity”. “Book of Rites Qu ceremony” goes: "Do not come, not