善听真话,广纳群言,理应是人们尤其是领导干部的良好思想素养。可时下,一些人一旦做官带长、走上领导岗位,就自觉或不自觉地摆出一副居高临下、盛气凌人的姿态,喜好周围人和下级的溢美之词和巴结讨好,听不进直言、真言、忠言和逆言,总认为自己的分析、判断和决策是正确的。心理学把这一现象称为虚荣心和好强心的一种外在表现,是一种不健康心态驱使的结果。现实生活中,说假话者之所以存在,是因为听信 Being good at listening to the truth and paying wide attention to the group talk should be the good ideological accomplishments of people, especially leading cadres. Nowadays, when some people take the lead and assume leadership positions, some of them conscientiously or unconsciously put themselves down in a down-to-earth and domineering stance. They like to bother with the beautiful words of the people and subordinates around them. Truth, obedience and adulation, always think their own analysis, judgment and decision-making is correct. Psychology calls this phenomenon an outward manifestation of vanity and good intentions, the result of an unhealthy mentality. In real life, the reason why weird speakers exist is because we listen to them