日本的爷爷奶奶对于第三代,他们基本撒手不管,就像他们当年抚育自己的子女一样,让他们的子女去抚养他们自己的子女。在日本的家庭中,这是普遍存在的社会现象,大家都潜意识地遵循着。子女也不依靠父母给自己带孩子,像父母抚育自己那样去抚育自己的子女。这似乎形成了传统,延续相 For the third generation, the grandparents in Japan basically ignored each other, just as they were raising their children that year, so that their children could raise their own children. This is a ubiquitous social phenomenon among Japanese families, and everyone subconsciously followed. Nor do children rely on their parents to bring their own children and raise their children as their parents did to nurture themselves. This seems to form a tradition, continuation phase