曾经遇到这样一个案例:一名学生把手机带到学校,班主任发现后将其叫到办公室谈话。当学生不配合时,班主任自然地提出要通知家长,而这个学生一听到这就一下子冲出办公室,然后不知从哪里拿出一把剪刀放在自己的脖子上,情绪激动,大声地要求老师、同学走开。一件看起来简单的事情就这样引发了轩然大波。在此后的交流中,我们才了解到这名学生之所以反应这么激烈是因为他的父亲比较暴力, Have encountered such a case: a student took the phone to school, the class teacher found it to the office after talking. When the students do not cooperate, the class teacher naturally proposed to inform the parents, and this student suddenly heard this suddenly out of the office, and then I do not know where to come up with a pair of scissors on his neck, emotional, loudly asked Teacher, classmate go away. An apparently simplistic incident caused an uproar. In the exchanges that followed, we learned that the reason why the student reacted so fiercely was because his father was violent,