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成人在着意培养孩子宽厚大方这种品质时,教育的方法应该慎重。既不能生硬地强迫孩子拿出心爱的东西与别的孩子分享;又不能脱离其认知水平空洞地说教;更不能因为孩子不愿与别人分享玩具而打骂孩子或没收玩具,那只能激起孩子对别人的憎恨。要达到教育的目的,最好的方法是启发和引导。一、用商量的口吻解决孩子间因抢玩具或其他物品而发生的争执。妮莎因吉森没有借给她玩具就打吉森。母亲问妮莎:“你认为打了吉森他就会把玩具借给你吗?”妮莎回答:“不。”母亲又说:“吉森玩好后你再向他借,他肯定会借给你的。吉森,你愿意得到一声谢谢吗?”吉森爽快地点点头:“当
When adults are concerned about the generousness and quality of children, education should be done with caution. Neither can it be forced to force children to show their beloved things to share with other children; nor can they be persuaded from their cognitive level; they should not scold their children or confiscate their toys because they do not want to share toys with others From the child’s hatred of others. The best way to reach the goal of education is to inspire and guide. First, with the tone of consultation to resolve the child because of grab toys or other items and the dispute occurred. Nisha ingesen hit Giessen without lending her toys. Mother asked Nisha: “Did you think Gatson would have lent the toy to you?” Nisha replied, “No,” said the mother again. “You’ll borrow from Giessen after he plays well. Gesi, would you like to get a thank you? ”Giessen nodded refreshingly:" When