一、坚持鼓励为主对孩子要细心观察,对于他们的点滴进步和微小成绩都要及时、热情地予以鼓励,使他们产生一种愉悦感。坚持鼓励为主会使他们的优点得到巩固,并产生自信感。经常鼓励与表扬,还会使孩子亲近你,使家庭充满了幸福与欢乐。二、少唠叨千万不要只盯着孩子的缺点和不足之处,无论大事、小事整天唠叨个没完。话讲多了不灵。讲多了,孩子不仅不听,反而产生一种厌恶心理。孩子心情不好,脾气就会变得暴躁。对孩子唠叨个没完,大人听了心烦,还容易引起家庭纠纷。三、保护自尊心孩子上进心强,好表现自己, First, insist on encouraging the children to be careful observation, for their little progress and minor achievements should be timely and enthusiastic to be encouraged, so that they produce a sense of pleasure. Adherence to encouragement will result in the consolidation of their strengths and create a sense of confidence. Often encourage and praise, but also make children close to you, so that the family is full of happiness and joy. Second, less nagging Do not just stare at the shortcomings and deficiencies of children, regardless of major events, small nagging all day long. Words are not working. Speaking more, children not only do not listen, but produce a disgusting psychology. Child’s mood is not good, temper will become irritable. Nagging children endless, adult listened to upset, but also easily lead to family disputes. Third, the protection of self-esteem Child motivated, good performance,