今年9月10日的中国教师节恰巧与传统的中秋节(9月12日)相邻,要不要给老师送礼、送什么礼、礼是不是要比(往年)单节更重一些等,成了困扰一些中国家长的心病;而老师们也为要不要收礼、怎么拒绝收礼、收了礼怎么办等问题犯难。在笔者的朋友中,一部分认为:教师节给老师送礼是必须的,否则大家都送我没送, On September 10 this year, the Chinese Teachers’ Day just happens to be adjacent to the traditional Mid-Autumn Festival (September 12). Do you want to give gifts to teachers or not? Is the ceremony more serious than in previous years? Troubled some Chinese parents heart disease; and teachers also want to receive gifts, how to refuse to receive gifts, how to do when received gifts and other crimes. In the author’s friends, some think: Teacher’s Day gifts to the teacher is necessary, or we did not send me to send,