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小时侯,和好朋友闹别扭了,一句“我不和你玩了”就足以让对方不知所措,然而很快又会和好如初,因为做错事的一方会说“对不起”。那时真的单纯,让人怀念。长大了,没有人再说“我不跟你玩了”,更没有人会说“对不起”了。长大了,就很少有小孩子那样的争吵,那么干脆利落,不留下任何不良的痕迹。长大了,只是长期地把小小的矛盾不断累积,最后一件鸡毛蒜皮的小事就成了导火线,足以把一座友谊的大厦给摧毁。我们为什么会变成一个如此“心胸狭窄”的人呢?心理学上的解释是:人都有保持心理平衡的需要,一种交
When I was young, I stopped awkwardly with my good friends. The phrase “I do not play with you” is enough to get overwhelmed by each other. However, it will soon be reconciled, because the wrong party will say “I’m sorry”. At that time really simple, people miss. Grow up, no one said “I do not play with you”, but no one will say “sorry”. Grow up, there are very few children quarrel, so crisp, do not leave any traces of bad. Growing up, but long-term accumulation of small conflicts, the last trivial trivial matter has become a fuse, enough to destroy a friendship building. Why do we become such a “narrow-minded” person? Psychological explanation is: people have the need to maintain psychological balance, a kind of pay