仅仅是不让他们吵架,或许他们就会用婚外情来宣泄。吵架不好,对人造成伤害。有谁不明白这个道理呢?可能的话,每个人都情愿避免这样的伤害。问题就在于,虽然一段关系里的双方往往都有这分愿望,他们中的很多人仍然一次次地卷入伤害中。诡异的是,常常没有人说得清楚,谁才是主动的肇事方。妻子怪丈夫:“你从来不关心我的感受,你知道我对你有多失望吗!”丈夫怪妻子:“你总是在表达对我的 Just do not let them fight, maybe they will use extra-marital affairs to vent. Quarrel is not good, causing harm to people. Who does not understand this truth? If possible, everyone is willing to avoid such harm. The problem is that while both parties in a relationship often have this desire, many of them are still getting involved in the damage again and again. Strange is that often no one made it clear that who is the active cause of the accident. Wife blame husband: ”You never care about my feelings, you know how much I am disappointed you! “ Husband blame wife: ”you are always expressed to me