人际沟通中的非言语信息既是心理咨询者了解来访学生内心世界的重要信息来源,也是心理咨询者表达助人意识和关注对方的重要因素。本文探讨了咨询者如何在咨询面谈中理解来访者的非言语信息,在灵活运用自身非言语技巧的同时,巧妙处理来访者的沉默情境,最终将言语信息和非言语信息交互运用于咨询面谈中,避免不恰当的非言语行为的发生,从而达到最佳咨询效果。 Non-verbal information in interpersonal communication is not only an important source of information for psychological consultants to understand the inner world of students visiting, but also an important factor for psychological consultants to express their awareness of helping others and paying attention to each other. This article explores how the consultant can understand the nonverbal information of the interviewer during the interview and flexibly deal with the silent situation of the interviewer while using his own nonverbal skills flexibly and finally apply verbal and nonverbal message interaction to the interview , To avoid inappropriate non-verbal behavior, so as to achieve the best counseling results.