嫁女确实在父系宗族文化体系之内被娘家排斥、疏离出去,但这并不意味着嫁女与娘家就完全脱离了关系。嫁女与娘家存在着密切的关系,并在制度性文化的许可范围之内发挥出一定程度的能动性。同时,嫁女与娘家在非正式文化尤其是日常生活上保持着亲密联系,尤其是嫁女造成的姻亲关系对联姻双方具有重大意义。 Married women are indeed excluded from the family within the patriarchal clan culture system, alienation, but this does not mean that the married woman and her parents are completely out of the relationship. There is a close relationship between the married woman and her family and a certain degree of motivation within the limits of the institutional culture. At the same time, the married women and their families maintain close ties in the informal culture, especially in their daily life. In particular, the marriage relationship between married women is of great significance to both parties of marriage.