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世界上有好些人是故意把爱与性放置于婚姻之外。这样做的人,其动机大致可分为三种。有的人是因为尝试过婚姻的苦味,不愿再踏进婚姻之门。另外一些人是因为有先见之明,知道婚姻不适合自己,于是绕道婚姻之外而行。更有少数的人,幸遇到一生至爱的人,但同时了解到,自己所至爱的人是不愿意受到婚姻的束缚,视婚姻为枷锁。若要用婚姻的枷锁把他捕捉起来,他会振翼飞走。于是为了把至爱的人留在身边,就采取南辕北辙的爱的方式,给予他最大的自由,让他觉得他的逗留是甘心情愿的,而不是受到强迫、哀求、要挟的。
There are many in the world that deliberately place love and sex outside of marriage. The motivation for doing so can be broadly divided into three categories. Some people because of the bitter taste of marriage, do not want to step into the door of marriage. Others, because of their foresight, knew that marriage was not for themselves, and they made a detour outside the marriage. More few people, fortunate enough to encounter loved ones, but at the same time learned that their loved ones are unwilling to be bound by marriage, as the yoke of marriage. To capture him with the shackles of marriage, he will flutter away. Therefore, in order to keep the beloved, he adopted the diametrically opposed method of love and granted him the greatest freedom, leaving him to feel that his stay was willing rather than forced, begged and threatened.