案例:认识小艾的人都说他是个性格温和的男生,待人接物比较得体,能顾及周围人的情绪。就这么一个被大家认同的人,却怎么也处理不好自己和母亲的关系。两人的关系从十几年前小艾父亲去世后就开始恶化,最近甚至到了水火不容的地步。他母亲因此向咨询师求助,希望咨询师劝说他听从自己的一个决定。母子两人坐在咨询室里,不可避免地又争吵起来。 Case: people know little things that he is a gentle personality boys, to be more appropriate physical contact, can take into account the emotions of people around. It is such a person recognized by everyone, but how to deal with the relationship between their mother and not good. The relationship between the two began to deteriorate from the moment when his father died a dozen years ago, and recently it even came to an end. His mother therefore turned to the counselor for help, hoping the counselor persuaded him to follow one of his own decisions. Mother and son sitting in the consultation room, inevitably quarrel again.