我在教堂甬道的一旁看着,我女儿和一个我不甚了解的高个小伙子都念了几句晦涩难懂的誓言,其大意不过是互敬互爱、白头偕老,然后被宣布为一对夫妻。仪式结束后,人们前来恭喜我和我的妻子,特别是另几位及笄女子的父亲向我道喜。他们为我高兴是因为我不必再为女儿的前程操心,她现在有了一个丈夫。他们的心意我领了,可是“喜”实在谈不上。如果我从女儿的婚事中有所得的话,那只是更加了一层忧虑,因为我还不清楚,到底和我女儿 I looked at the side of the church corridor, my daughter and a young man I did not know very well read a few obscure vows, the effect is nothing more than mutual respect and love, grow old, and then was declared a couple . After the ceremony, people came to congratulate me and my wife, especially the other, and the woman’s father said to me. They are happy for me because I no longer have to worry about my daughter’s future, and she now has a husband. I took their mind, but “hi ” is really hard to talk about. If I had something to do with my daughter’s marriage, it would only be a further worry because I was not yet sure what my daughter was