从幼儿开始 ,成人就开始关注他们的成绩 ,关注他们在学校的优良表现 ,关注他们的每一个进步 ,但是很少有人关注他们的心理世界。如他们感到孤独无助、忧虑不安、无人理解以及由此而衍生出的恐惧心理。最近 ,南京市鼓楼区教委在３００多名四年级至六年级小学生中作了一次题为“ Beginning as a child, adults begin to pay attention to their grades, focus on their excellent performance at school and focus on every step of their life, but few focus on their mental world. Such as they feel lonely, anxiety, no understanding and the resulting fear. Recently, Nanjing Drum Tower District Board of Education in more than 300 fourth grade to sixth grade pupils made a speech entitled "