接安晚辈给长辈请安后,长辈不能没有什么表示,这时要伸出手来以示接受,按老规矩叫接安。一般是单手接安,礼大的双手接。接安看起来平平常常,但里头却大有深沉(很深内涵之意)。从长辈脸上的表情和手伸得远近高低,能看出长辈对晚辈的褒贬。有时,长辈对晚辈头天的举止言谈不满意,还可以不接安。北京的满族旗人家庭,规矩比较大,礼数也多,讲究晚辈给长辈一天要请三次安。老北京人通常是三世同堂或四世同堂,即 Anson juniors please elders please, the elders can not say nothing, this time to reach out to show acceptance, according to the old rules called security. Generally, one-handed pick-up, ceremony big hands pick. Security seems mediocre, but inside there is deep (deep meaning). Elder faces and hands from the face to reach the level of distance, can see elders on the juniors of praise and derogatory. Sometimes elders are unsatisfied with the demeanor of their younger generation’s day-to-day behavior, and they may not take orders. Manchu banner of Beijing’s family, the rules are larger, more etiquette, pay attention to junior elders to please three times a day. Old Beijingers are usually three generations or four generations, that is