“优秀”一词,本来就是攀比的产物首先,“优秀”这个词被发明出来的时候,是个挺安分的词,但放在中国文化语境下,就被披挂了一身的私心杂念,也是蛮委屈的。当人们夸一个人“优秀”的时候,不知不觉已经把他放在了一个比较的语境里面。别跟我扯什么“优秀”就是自己跟自己比,在成功学语境下癫狂的大多数们,是绝不会这么想的。所以,当我每每和国外的同龄人相处时,往往有两个很强烈的感受,一是她们为何拥有和 “Excellent ” was originally the product of the competition. First of all, when the word “Excellent ” was invented, it was a very safe word, but on the Chinese cultural background, it was put on a Selfish thoughts, but also quite wronged. When people boast a person “good ”, unwittingly put him in a more context inside. Do not tell me what “good ” is their own with their own, in the context of the success of learning the majority of mad, will never think so. So, when I get along with my peers of my own country, I often feel two very strong feelings. One is why they have