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第1招在日常生活中寻找可赞赏的事情。孩子“坏”时希望受到注意,“好”时希望得到赞赏,这不仅能增强孩子的自尊心,而且承认他所做的事情, 会提高他的自我价值观念。即使日常生活的一些小事,也可以提醒孩子知道他是可爱的、有能力的。例如,在全家一起吃饭时,每个人都分享到成功和快乐,使这一时刻成为愉快的聚会而不是约束;孩子遇到困难时给予帮助;每个人都是家人注意的对象,受到别人的关怀和爱;可以经常将卡片或画片贴到门上或放在桌子上,以表示相互的爱;可以在孩子的床头上挂上两张照片,一张是他正在做父母赞赏的某件事,另一张是全家人愉快地在一起,以此提醒孩子的可爱和能力。
The first move in everyday life looking for admirable things. Children want to be noticed when they are “bad” and hopefully be appreciated when they are “well,” which not only enhances the child’s self-esteem but also recognizes that what he does will improve his self-worth. Even a few minor things in daily life can remind the child that he is lovely and capable. For example, when eating with the whole family, everyone shares success and happiness, making the moment a happy gathering rather than a restraint, children helping in times of trouble, and everyone being the object of family’s attention and being caring for others And love; you can often put cards or pictures on the door or on the table to show mutual love; you can hang two pictures on the child’s bed, one is something he is doing their parents praise , Another is the whole family happily together to remind the child’s lovely and ability.