在经济飞速发展的今天,小学生所生活的家庭环境、社会环境已经发生了巨大的变化。他们大多是独生子女,是父母的掌上明珠,家庭中的小“皇帝”。在家庭中得到的是父母、长辈的溺爱和娇宠,在物质上得到了极度满足。然而他们在情感方面,遇事“耐挫”的心理却是比较脆弱和娇嫩的。培养学生“耐挫”的心理品质,促进心理健康成长,在现代学校教育中有着重要的作用。一、培养孩子的独立能力如今,许多家庭的孩子生活在衣来伸手、饭来张口的环境中。家 In today’s rapid economic development, the family environment and social environment in which primary school students live have undergone tremendous changes. Most of them are only children, the parents of the pearl, the family of small “emperor ”. In the family, parents, elders are spoiled and spoiled, and they are materially satisfied. However, in terms of emotion, they are more fragile and delicate in their psychology of “frustration.” To cultivate the students “frustration ” psychological quality, to promote mental health growth, in modern school education has an important role. First, cultivate children’s independent ability Today, many families of children living in the clothing to reach out to dinner in the open environment. Family