心理学上有一种说法认为,人们对未来的预期普遍来看比较模糊,容易忽略具体细节,并且,偏向乐观化。这真是再正确不过的。然而,细节往往决定成败。就好比当年懵懂无知的我在憧憬美好的大学生活时,眼前只看见了高大帅气的学长,却没料到学长身边早就有了温柔体贴的另一名学长……啊不,是学姐。我更没想到的是,高大帅气的学长会凭借自己 There is an argument in psychology that people’s expectations for the future are generally ambiguous and it is easy to ignore specific details and optimism. This is really correct. However, details often determine success or failure. It was as if I was ignorant when I was looking forward to a beautiful university life. I only saw the tall and handsome headmaster. I didn’t expect that the head of the school had already had a gentle and considerate teacher.... Ah no, it was a sister. What I did not expect was that tall and handsome seniors would use their own