豫中平原有一种风俗,谓之吃米面.女儿出嫁到夫家,十月怀胎,一朝分娩,新一辈人又呱呱落地.这么大的喜庆事自然要摆筵庆贺.满月之日,夫、妻双方的亲友一家提一个篮子来贺,内盛大米或小麦,上放二三十枚鸡蛋及婴儿所需之物,畅宴一次,谓之吃米面.吃酒人员由三部分组成:东道主、男家客、女家客.东道主又称陪客,分为男陪和女陪,都是从夫家族人中选出有身份、见过世面、懂礼的人充当的.女陪客专陪女宾,负责她们饮酒、吃茶,照顾她们吃好.男陪除需懂规矩外,还必须具备一个硬本领,那就是善划拳、有酒量,其主要任务只有一条,那就是设法让来宾喝好.酒桌之上,犹如两军对垒,阵线分明,“杀”气腾腾.八仙桌旁按规矩是三个陪五个,所以必须使出浑身解数,才能完成任务.如果能把来宾醉倒几个,那就是很大的功劳,据此成为族中出头露面的人物,更有了人前夸口的资本.反过来,如果守不住阵地,对方没倒,自己先醉了,那就算是没陪好,是很失面子的事,甚至成为整个族里的屈辱,因为那影射人丁不旺,族中无人.男家客即指夫家的亲友.女家客指妇家的族人,亦称娘家人.娘家人是一个什么样的概念?以前还没施行计划生育的基本国策,一个老太爷下面有五、六个爷,叔伯辈达二十余人,再加上 There is a custom in the plains of Yuzhong, which means eating rice noodles. The daughter is married to her husband and she has a baby in October. Once she gives birth and the new generation of people is born again. , The wife and relatives of both wives put up a basket to congratulate him, containing rice or wheat, put twenty or thirty eggs and baby needed things, feast once, that the eating rice.The eater is composed of three parts: the host , Male guest, female customer off.Home hosts also known as escort, is divided into male escort and female escort, are selected from the husband family members have identity, met the world, know the person to serve as a gift. Bin, responsible for their drinking, eating tea, taking care of them to eat well. In addition to the male companion need to understand the rules, but also must have a hard skills, that is, good boxing, there is a drink, its main task is only one, that is, trying to make guests drink Above the wine table, like the two armies confront each other, the front line is clear, “kill” gas .Three Xian table next to the rules is to accompany the five, so you have to make every effort to accomplish the task. , That is a great credit, thus becoming the first appearance of the family figures, even more boast before people Capital. In turn, if you can not hold positions, the other did not fall, their first drunk, then even if not accompany, is a very lost face, and even become a humiliation of the entire family, because the criticism of people is not busy, Family no one refers to the relatives and friends of husband and family. Female refers to the tribe of women, also known as her family .Narry family is what kind of concept? Before the implementation of the basic national policy of family planning, an old man Here are five or six Lord, uncle more than twenty people, plus