现代人如果不熟悉《红楼梦》,他们的爱情语言符号会显得单调而不够典雅。不读懂贾宝玉,就不知道什么叫对所爱女性的体贴。不理解林黛玉,就不明白恋爱中的女性的复杂心理。现代人也许觉得,宝、黛的爱情故事发展得过于缓慢,直到黛玉死,两个人也很少有身体的亲密接触,更不要说性爱 If modern people are not familiar with “Dream of Red Mansions,” their love language symbols will appear monotonous and not elegant enough. Do not understand Jia Baoyu, do not know what to think of the love of women. Do not understand Lin Daiyu, do not understand the complicated psychology of women in love. Modern people may think, Bao, Dai love story developed too slowly, until Daiyu dead, two people have little physical contact, let alone sex