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从成人的角度来说,似乎不与他们对着干的孩子就是所谓的“听话的孩子”、“乖孩子”。当然,这其中的“不对着干”包括对父母的安排“惟命是从”,不与父母吵嘴,不“顶撞”父母、老师,上课认真听讲,学习成绩优秀,绝对听从老师的教导……总而言之,对师长千依百顺的孩子就是听话的孩子。这样的孩子是很受大人们喜欢的,因为令他们省心。但是孩子们是如何看待、评价听话的孩子呢?本文作者采访了几个孩子,他们的想法有的是在成人理解的范围之内,有的想法可能会让我们吃惊了。
From an adult point of view, children who do not seem to be doing the wrong with them are what they call “obedient children,” “good children.” Of course, one of these “not doing things” includes arranging for parents, “life is only from”, not quarreling with parents, not "bumping into parents and teachers, listening attentively in class, and having excellent academic performance, and absolutely obeying the teacher’s teaching ... All in all , To the teachers according to Baishun children is obedient child. Such children are very popular with adults, because they worry. However, how do children view and evaluate obedient children? The author interviewed several children and some of them were within the adult’s understanding. Some ideas may surprise us.