题记:很可能,迄今关于男性的知识,和关于女性的知识一样,是遭到污染的。一个男人,和一个女人一样,关键不是符合某个既定的模式,符合他人或自己头脑中关于“男人”、“女人”的想象,而是建立起他这个人自身的出发点、寻找出自己的尺寸、比例,发掘他自己的真相,在此基础上,才能确 Inscription: It is quite possible that so far the knowledge of men, like that of women, has been contaminated. Like a woman, the key to a man is not to conform to a given model, to conform to the imagination of “man” or “woman” in other people's or own minds, but to establish his own starting point and find his own size , Proportion, to explore his own truth, on this basis, to be true