越聪明的人,在社交上花的时间越少。因为他懂得:人脉不在别人身上,而是藏在自己身上。很多时候,真正使我们劳累的并不是工作本身,而是“无效的社交”。什么是“无效社交”?下面这个场景也许算个代表:你跑到一个聚会上,跟一群陌生人嘘寒问暖,全程笑脸相迎,满屋子客套话,敬酒、扫微信、留电话号码,但是3天之后就记不清对方是谁了……仔细想一下,我们的时间和精力大部分都被这种“无效社交”占用了。 The smarter people spend less time socializing. Because he knows: people are not on others, but hidden in their own body. In many cases, it is not the work itself that really gets us tired, but the “ineffective social”. The following scene may be considered a representative: You went to a party, with a group of strangers to greet the warm, full of smiling face to face, full of courtesy, toast, WeChat, phone number, But after 3 days, I can not remember who the other person is ... Think about it, and most of our time and energy are taken up by this “invalid social”.