有很多事情是可以有多种处理办法的,遇事要灵活行事,不要那么僵硬,有时可以退让一下,给对方改变主意和态度的机会,选择方法要考虑事情的效果现代人都讲究感恩,但还是有很多人知恩不报,如果我遭遇了肯定很生气。直到我看到美国心理学家大卫·伯恩斯博士的《好心情》一书,才发现面对知恩不报的人, There are a lot of things that can be handled in a variety of ways. Things should be flexible. Do not be so rigid. Sometimes you can give in and give way to change your ideas and attitudes. Choose a way to think about the effects. There are still a lot of people who know how to say good news, and if I’m in the affirmative, I’m angry. It was only when I noticed the “good mood” of the American psychologist Dr David Burns that I found that in the face of resentment,