“世界上最伟大的事,是一个人懂得如何做自己的主人。”——米歇尔·德·蒙田住开我始过去总想着要独自生活。十几岁的时候,我幻想过住在属于自己的公寓里,穿着日本和服,饮着正山小种(在那些成长的岁月里,我读了很多柯莱特的小说)。但23岁时,我搬去和男朋友一起住,那时我开始规划新的未来——一个有其他人存在的未来。到了30岁,这就完全变了。和我的平装小说中的柯莱特一样,我已经到了“思考的年纪”。 “The greatest thing in the world is a man who understands how to be his own master.” - Michelle de Montaigne Living away from me I always thought of living alone. As a teenager, I fantasized about living in my own apartment, wearing a Japanese kimono and drinking Oyama races (in those years of growing up, I read a lot about Camelot’s novel). But when I was 23, I moved with my boyfriend and I started planning a new future - a future where everyone else existed. By the age of 30, this has completely changed. Like Camelot in my paperback novel, I’ve reached “age of thinking.”