“淑女”这个词,最早应该是见于《诗·周南·关雎》:“窈窕淑女,君子好逑。”历代解释《诗经》的人,都对这个“淑”字有一个共同的理解,那就是“善”。按照中国传统道德的标准,在评价一个人的时候,是把德行放在一切之首位,你纵然才高八斗,贵为王侯,富有四海,但德行有亏也一样被钉在历史的耻辱柱上。过去要求女子有四德:德言容工,同样 “Lady ” the word, the earliest should be found in the “poem Zhounan Guan 雎”: “窈 窕 lady, a gentleman 逑.” “Throughout the interpretation of the Book of Songs, all of this A common understanding, that is ”good ". According to the standard of Chinese traditional morality, when evaluating a person, it is to place morality at the top of everything. Even if you are up-talented and princes-rich, but have universal righteousness, the virtuous people are equally ashamed of being shameful in history on. In the past, women were required to have four virtues: German capacity to work, the same