本文以晚清湘乡曾氏家族史料为基础,探讨了曾氏家庭教育中的性别建构,尤其是妇道的养成。虽然曾家男女有别,在实践的层次上,曾家并未僵守“男主外,女主内”的限制。男性实际内外兼管,男子除读书求功名,也要理财、洒扫、收粪、锄草;女子除女红,也要能文能诗,知书达礼,以期其创以和为尚的家庭生活秩序。 Based on the family history of the Zeng family in the late Qing dynasty, this article explores the gender construction in Zeng’s family education, especially the development of women’s and women’s empire. Although there were men and women in different places, at the level of practice, the family did not rigidly abide by the restrictions of “male leader and female leader”. In fact, men in addition to outside and inside, in addition to reading books for men fame, but also financial management, sprinkle sweeping, collecting manure, weeding; women in addition to female red, but also to poetry, to know the book Da Li, Order of life.