当代农村初中学生是跨世纪的一代,他们正处在身心发展的重要时期,随着生理与心理的发育发展、竞争压力的增大、社会阅历的扩展及思维方式的变化,在学习、生活、人际交往、自我意识等方面可能会遇到各种心理问题,有些问题如果不能及时解决,将会对学生的发展产生不利的影响,严重的会使学生出现心理障碍或人格缺陷。为使学生健康成长,教师就需要帮助他们掌握调控自我、发展自我的能力。 Contemporary rural junior high school students are a generation of the cross-century, they are in an important period of physical and mental development, with the development of physical and psychological development, increased competitive pressures, the social experience of the expansion and changes in thinking, learning, living, Interpersonal communication, self-awareness and other aspects may encounter various psychological problems, some of the problems if not resolved in time, will have a detrimental impact on the development of students, will seriously lead to mental disorders or personality defects. To enable students to grow healthily, teachers need to help them master their ability to regulate themselves and develop themselves.