在我为成人上的一堂课上,我做了一件“不可原谅的事”。我给全班出家庭作业!作业内容是“在下周以前去找你爱的人,告诉他们你爱他。那些人必须是你从没说过这句话的人,或者是很久没听到你说这些话的人。” 这个作业听来并不刁难。但你得明白,这群人中大部分超过35岁,他们在被教导“表露情感是不对的”那个年代成长,不能表现情感或哭泣(这是绝对禁止的!)。所以对某些人而言,这真是一个令人震惊的家庭作业。 In my class for adults, I did an “unforgivable thing.” I give all the class homework! The homework is “Find your loved ones by next week, and tell them you love him. Those must be people you have never said, or you have not heard from you for a long time Those who say these words. ”This homework does not sound troubling. But you have to understand that the majority of these people are over the age of 35 and that they grow up in the age of being taught “to show emotion,” and can not express emotion or cry (which is absolutely forbidden!). So for some, it’s a shocking homework.