记得看过一部西方电影,影片中一位慈祥的母亲不止一次地拍着她要去上学的儿子说:“孩子,去好好玩!”当时我感到很吃惊,怎么能让去上学的孩子好好玩呢?这在我们中国可是绝无仅有的事儿。我们中国的母亲对孩子都说了些什么?无须考察别人,想想自己便可见一斑。因为我也是母亲,我就从来没有向我的女儿说过: I remember reading a Western movie, a kind mother in the film patting her son to go to school more than once said: “Children, go play well!” I was very surprised at that time, how to get to school Children play good? This is the only thing in our China. What did our Chinese mothers say to their children? There is no need to examine others and think of themselves. Since I was also a mother, I never said to my daughter: