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一个大家庭,儿孙多,相处在一起,难免磕磕碰碰,产生一些误会。如何正确对待处理,化解矛盾,达到全家人和睦共处,我认为最重要的是要做到不分老幼,一视同仁。诚然,晚辈首先要尊老敬老,与长辈分开居住后,要经常回家看看,嘘寒问暖,以示孝顺关爱。老年人对儿孙都要一视同仁,不分轻重厚薄同样看待。韩愈在《昌黎先生集·原人》一文中云:“是故圣人一视同仁,笃近而举远。”《元曲选·杀狗劝夫》道:“为甚么小的儿多
A big family, children and grandchildren, get along together, inevitably bump, resulting in some misunderstanding. How to treat each other properly and resolve contradictions so as to bring the whole family together in harmony should be the most important thing to do regardless of age and sex. Admittedly, the younger generation must first respect and respect the elders. After living separately from the elders, they should go home regularly to see if they are lovingly nourished and show their love for filial piety. The elderly should treat their children and grandchildren equally regardless of their severity. Han Yu in ”Mr. Chang Li set the original man,“ a text in the cloud: ”is the saint is treated equally, Benedict and far away. “ ”Yuan music selection and killing dog“: ”Why small children