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香港作家亦舒有篇文章叫《从宽处理》。她的生活哲学是“宽松处理法”——买衣服不要那么紧,大一码,会觉得舒服;和人约会,时间不要约在大清早,以免他人紧张;写作时,实在写不出长篇,就写个短篇好了……我欣赏这种人生态度:对人、对己、对世间事物都宽松一点,宽大一点,宽容一点。对自己宽一点,不要无谓挑战自己的压力承受限度,完不成的工作暂时放一放,天不会塌下来。对家人宽容点,别抱过多期望。亲人虽然可以帮助你、资助你,但不能永远如此。给你帮助是亲情,帮不到你也不能算无情。
Hong Kong writer Yi Shu also has an article called “leniency.” Her philosophy of life is “loose treatment ” - do not buy clothes so tight, freshman, will feel comfortable; and people dating, do not make an appointment in early morning, so as not to be nervous; writing, it can not write Long, to write a short story well ... ... I appreciate this attitude toward life: people, themselves, things on the world are relaxed, generous, tolerance a little. To yourself a little wider, do not unnecessarily challenge their own pressure to withstand the limit, the work can not be done for a while, the sky will not fall down. Be tolerant of family members, do not hold too many expectations. Although loved ones can help you, fund you, but not always. Help is to help you, can not help you can not be ruthless.