论文部分内容阅读
在人生旅途中,有些天资聪颖的孩子,由于懒惰、意志软弱等问题,最终无所作为;而一些智力似乎平平者,由于勤奋踏实反而作出成绩。从某种意义上讲,人的性格决定了人的命运与前途。那么,究竟什么是性格呢?性格是人对现实稳定的态度以及与之相适应的习惯化了的行为方式,其个性特征包括气质、自我意识和他人意识、动机、兴趣、思维方式等。良好的性格,更重要的是后天培养和塑造的。孩子所处的家庭、社会、环境不同,父母身体、文化素质、品质、对孩子教养方式各不相同,使孩子身心发展、个性形成也不一样。
In the journey of life, some talented children, due to laziness, weak will and other issues, eventually doing nothing; and some intelligence seems mediocre, but because of diligence and steadfast achievements. In a sense, human nature determines people’s destiny and future. So what exactly is personality? Personality is a man’s attitude towards reality and its adaptation to the habitual behavior. Its personality characteristics include temperament, self-awareness and other people’s consciousness, motivation, interest and way of thinking. Good character, more importantly, acquired and shaped. The family, society and environment in which the children live are different from each other. Parental bodies, cultural qualities, and quality of children are different from each other in their parenting styles. Therefore, children’s physical and mental development are different.