儒家经常告诫人,不要得意忘形,这是很难做到的。一个人发了财,有了地位,有了年龄,或者有了学问,自然气势就很高,得意就忘形了。所以人做到得意不忘形很难。但是以我的经验还发现另一面,有许多人是失意忘形;这种人可以在功名富贵的时候,修养蛮好,一到了没得功名富贵玩的时候,就都完了,都变了:自己觉得自己都矮了,都小了,变成失意忘形。 Confucians often warn people not to forget about themselves, which is hard to do. A man made a fortune, status, age, or have learned, natural momentum is high, proud to forget. So people do not forget to form very difficult. But in my experience, I also found that on the other side, there are many people who are disappointed. Such people can be fine when they are rich and powerful, and when they have not got their wealth, they are all changed: they themselves Feel they are short, are small, become frustrated.