编辑老师: 我是一个心思比较重的女生,平时不论看到同学们说什么或做什么,我总爱左思右想,合计来合计去。更为苦恼的是,有时候我竟然不由自主地把自以为是的想法表露出来,动不动就生气,不理人,或者干脆跟人家吵上一架,闹得相互之间都不愉快。同学们都嫌我“心眼儿小”,谁也不愿跟我深交。我实在是太痛苦了!我也知道这是一种毛病,可我怎么才能改掉它呢? Editing teacher: I am a girl with heavy thoughts. Usually, regardless of what the classmates say or do, I always like to think about it and total it. What is even more distressing is that sometimes I can’t help but express my opinion of self-righteousness. I get angry and ignore people, or simply quarrel with people and make them unhappy with each other. The students all thought that I was “small in my heart” and nobody wanted to make deep friends with me. I am really too painful! I also know that this is a problem, but how can I get rid of it?