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前几天,我惧怕多时的那一刻终于来临。15岁的女儿问我,她是否可以和一个男孩去约会。这几年,我和妻子一路看着儿子对异性越来越感兴趣,觉得这是挺正常的一件事。现在轮到女儿头上。一想到她会跟十几岁的毛头小伙子泡在一起,我就有种不寒而栗的感觉。为了女儿的安全,几年前,我就暗下决心,要让她在我眼皮子底下待得越久越好。随着时间的推移,我逐渐认识到自己的这种想法不太现实:“随着年龄的增长,女儿对异性产生越来越多的关注是件不可避免的事情,而我自己的精力也越来越不够用了。”
A few days ago, I am afraid of the moment has finally arrived. The 15-year-old daughter asked me if she could go on a date with a boy. In recent years, my wife and I watched his son grew more interested in the opposite sex, think this is normal thing. Now it’s my daughter’s turn. When I thought she was going to be with a teenage feather boy, I had a chill feeling. For my daughter’s safety, a few years ago, I was determined to make her stay under my eyes as long as possible. Over time, I came to realize that my idea was not realistic: “As we grow older, it’s inevitable for daughters to get more and more attention to the opposite sex, and my own energy More and more not enough. ”