人民法院对婚前财物纠纷的处理一般为:(1)女方向男方索要的钱物,由女方返还。(2)对女方取得财物的性质是索要还是赠与难以认定的,按赠与处理,不予返不还。(3)对于没有证据证明是索要或纯粹是男方主动给女方的钱物,一般不予返还。这里需要注意的是,对一些较难认定的案件,法官会运用“自由裁量权”来进行案件裁决,可能会判令女方(或男方)“酌情返还”。对于男方起诉,女方仅在答辩状中提出曾给付男方钱物, The handling of marital property disputes by the people’s court is generally as follows: (1) The money the woman solicits from the man is returned by the woman. (2) the nature of property obtained by the woman is asked or donated difficult to identify, according to the gift, not to return. (3) Money is generally not refunded if there is no evidence to claim or is purely a man’s initiative to give to the woman. It should be noted here that in some difficult cases, the judge will use “discretionary power” to decide on the case and may order the woman (or man) to “return” as appropriate. For the man sued, the woman only made in the pleadings to pay the man money,