“现在的孩子越来越难管了。”不知从何时起,这句话成了当妈妈的共同抱怨,我也不例外。总觉得孩子是自己的,说话深一句浅一句没关系,当女儿兴奋地跟我说她的一些想法、提一些她想知道的问题时,我总是毫无顾忌地驳斥她。自以为小树就要修理,等长成了歪脖树就晚了。结果事与愿违,女儿每每都扫兴地说:“往后什么事也不跟你说,行了吧,满意了吧,还不如跟好朋友说呢。”唉,真是做妈妈容易做朋友难。 “Nowadays the kids get harder and harder.” I do not know since when this sentence became the common complaint of my mother, and I’m no exception. Always feel the child is their own, to speak a word shallow does not matter, when the daughter excitedly told me some of her ideas, to mention some of the things she wants to know, I always refuse to refuse her. Since I thought the tree is about to be repaired, it is too late to become a crooked tree. The result was counterproductive, the daughter often disappointed to say: “What happened in the future do not tell you, OK, satisfied, not as good as friends.” Well, it is so easy to be my mother friend.