为了那些小圆鼻头、圆屁股的无价之宝——那些可爱的孩子,你得费相当多的时间和精神照顾他们。我知道要是教孩子用五除十,这课程很快就可教完,可是要教女孩成为女人,男孩成为男人,这就得教一辈子。而且忘了教,厌倦得不想教,或者宁愿不教,也摆脱不掉这份工作。那只不过是换了课程:因为不重视、不关心他们,就是教他们不重视、不关心别人,再没有比这更清楚快捷的方法了。 假如我只教我的孩子一样东西,我要他们明白,幸福与爱之间有无限深切的关系。 我要告诉我的孩子,人生的幸福,只是用偶然一段愉快时光来衡量的。我要他们知道生命的享受不是一辈子,甚至不是一季节,而是在阳光灿烂的早晨,下雪的午后,庭园中野餐时,等待孩子退热时,晚上夫妻相对默然静坐时,从洗衣店取回她一条裙或他 For those small round nose, round bottom of the priceless treasure - those cute kids, you have to spend considerable time and energy to take care of them. I know that if I teach children to use five times ten, this course can be taught very quickly, but to teach the girl to become a woman and the boy to be a man, it will be taught for a lifetime. And forget to teach, tired do not want to teach, or would rather not teach, but also get rid of this job. It was nothing more than a change of course: there is no clearer and faster method than paying no attention to, paying no attention to them, teaching them to neglect and not caring about others. If I only teach my children something, I want them to understand that there is an infinite and deep relationship between happiness and love. I want to tell my children, the happiness of life, just by chance a pleasant time to measure. I want them to know that the enjoyment of life is not a lifetime, not even a season, but in the sunny morning, snowy afternoon, picnic in the garden, waiting for the child to cool down, the relative silence of the couple at night, taken from the laundry Back to her a skirt or him