孩子们需要知道害怕是自然的。恐惧情绪是可以克服的。一位有成就的律师生动地回忆了他童年时,在游乐场的滑梯前踌躇不前的情景:“我那时大约4岁,滑梯在我看来足有一英里高。爸爸当着其他小朋友的面,称我是女孩似的男孩,我羞愧得跑回了家。” 一位妇女记起小时候害怕在黑暗中睡觉。“妈妈说这太愚蠢了。她关上了我房间的灯和通向我房间的门。我自然是更加恐惧了。” Children need to know that fear is natural. Fear of emotions can be overcome. A successful lawyer vividly recalled the scene of his childhood hesitating in front of the playground slides: “I was about 4 years old at that time, the slides seemed a mile high for me.” Dad was in front of other children Face, saying I was a girl-like boy, I ran back to shame. “A woman remembered a child afraid to sleep in the darkness. ”It’s foolish for Mom to say she turned off the light in my room and the door leading to my room.I naturally got even more scared.“ ”